Teach your kids to be grateful for a gift—even if they aren’t
A child who sulks after unwrapping a pair of socks isn’t spoiled—that’s just how a young brain works. But parents can still help children develop graciousness and gratitude.
A few weeks ago, I asked my four-year-old what he should do when he receives a gift.
“Say ‘thank you,’” he replied.
“And what should you do if you receive a gift you don’t like?” I asked.
“Say, ‘no thank you,’” he said matter-of-factly.
Nearly every parent has a mortifying memory in which a child has appeared ungrateful for a gift. And though the ability to express gratitude when they’re just not feeling it is something a young brain isn’t yet equipped to handle, teaching children this skill is possible—and it has long-term developmental benefits.
Learning how to graciously accept a gift—even one you don't want—helps kids understand the connection between someone who loves them and the gift, according to child development experts. But it
